How can I be supportive of both my parents during a divorce without taking sides?
— Anonymous
Divorces are tricky. The key is communication. Do your best to talk to both parents equally. However, make sure that you don’t end up acting as a messenger between the two of them. That can lead to miscommunication and confusion, and makes it more difficult for you to stay neutral. It also puts you in an unfair position. Let both of your parents know that you love them and care about them, and want them to be an active part of your life. The conversations don’t have to be about serious topics – just tell them about your schoolwork, friends, concerns, etc.
